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Vulnerability and self-awareness are the first steps (not talking)
I dislike hearing that talking is the first step to making a change. It's simplistic and reduces the client, always a huge red flag.


When does a therapist have to break confidentiality UK
Confidentiality may be the reason why you sought out counselling. But, there are exceptions and limitations to confidentiality...


How to counsel yourself
Find a way to express yourself where you have privacy and security and you can try to understand what happens to yourself in that space.


Why saying "safe space" isn't effective in therapy.
What does 'safe space' mean? Do we all understand a safe space equally? And how does one create desired effect?


What happens in therapy (and how do you know if it's working)?
I often have clients ask, "Lily, what is the actual plan here? How do I know if therapy is working?" Here's what to expect ...


What to do when you're not in the mood for therapy?
Not being in the mood for therapy is common! Yet, there are things to do to make sure you still get the most out of your session...


Therapy in the media isn't therapy
Therapy in the media couldn't be further from reality. Here's how we see therapists in the media...


Can I see more than one therapist?
Many therapists will not see a client for individual therapy who is also engaging in therapy with another professional. Why?


What will I get from therapy?
I don't really know how to sum it up. It can be life changing, if not saving! It's a customised process, but here's what you can expect...


Can my therapist know I smoke marijuana?
You may be worried about the consequences of talking about marijuana with your therapist. Let's answer a few questions you may have...


Am I a burden to my therapist?
You probably know your therapist cares, it's a choice they've made. But that's not why you asked.


5 things that happen between therapy sessions
What impact can these 60 minutes have? They will have an impact on your week. Those minutes trickle out like water seeping into soil.


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