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Vulnerability and self-awareness are the first steps (not talking)
I dislike hearing that talking is the first step to making a change. It's simplistic and reduces the client, always a huge red flag.


When does a therapist have to break confidentiality UK
Confidentiality may be the reason why you sought out counselling. But, there are exceptions and limitations to confidentiality...


How to counsel yourself
Find a way to express yourself where you have privacy and security and you can try to understand what happens to yourself in that space.


Why saying "safe space" isn't effective in therapy.
What does 'safe space' mean? Do we all understand a safe space equally? And how does one create desired effect?


What is the BACP?
It's possible you've come across the BACP. It is central in the UK because they keep professionals in check and make sure you're respected.


Do therapists treat all clients the same?
This a common question I often get asked as a therapist. I wonder if the reason why clients ask is as equally two fold as the answer.


Do I need to talk about feelings in therapy?
Perhaps you're worried your therapist'll dig up feelings you ought to know and share. It shouldn't be like that. But we are interested. Why?


Can my therapist decide when therapy ends?
My therapist has told me therapy is ending. Can a therapist leave their client?
It's typical to have mixed feelings about therapy ending.


Helplines vs Therapy
They're different - with different purposes, goals and reasons. A helpline is not psychotherapy.


What you need to say to your therapist
Disclosure is crucial in therapy. Here’s what you might need to start saying and why…


How to prepare for a therapy session
Lily, how should I prepare myself for my therapy session? Here are a few tips for preparing yourself for your session...


What to do when you're not in the mood for therapy?
Not being in the mood for therapy is common! Yet, there are things to do to make sure you still get the most out of your session...


Therapy in the media isn't therapy
Therapy in the media couldn't be further from reality. Here's how we see therapists in the media...


Counsellor Reflections: how to help?
Helping others is putting your own oxygen mask on first and working on yourself. When fit and strong, you help others fight their hurdles.


How to get started in therapy - a short story
A short story to answer 9 questions regarding how to get started in therapy in 2023


6 ways a therapist could ruin therapy
Therapists could ruin therapy and it's not okay! Here are six subtle ways your therapist could be ruining therapy to look out for...


Is therapy only for people with problems?
There's a general idea that a person must be in, or is in, a bad way to be in therapy. But you may be in therapy because...


Will my child suit online therapy?
Kids need an online service. They want to the service. And being online doesn't stop them from talking.


What will I get from therapy?
I don't really know how to sum it up. It can be life changing, if not saving! It's a customised process, but here's what you can expect...


Will a therapist take sides?
But will they take sides? Might they agree with everything a client says? Might they encourage and collude?


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