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Vulnerability and self-awareness are the first steps (not talking)
I dislike hearing that talking is the first step to making a change. It's simplistic and reduces the client, always a huge red flag.


When does a therapist have to break confidentiality UK
Confidentiality may be the reason why you sought out counselling. But, there are exceptions and limitations to confidentiality...


Counselling Privacy Policy
Counselling and psychotherapy confidentially and privacy policies.


Why saying "safe space" isn't effective in therapy.
What does 'safe space' mean? Do we all understand a safe space equally? And how does one create desired effect?


What happens in therapy (and how do you know if it's working)?
I often have clients ask, "Lily, what is the actual plan here? How do I know if therapy is working?" Here's what to expect ...


Helplines for mental health support in the UK
The below links are to helplines only. But, other forms of support are out there too!


What to do when you're not in the mood for therapy?
Not being in the mood for therapy is common! Yet, there are things to do to make sure you still get the most out of your session...


Can I ask my therapist about them?
Ask away. Don't be shy with your therapist. Even if they don't answer your question, don't worry. They are glad you asked (trust me!).


Can I see more than one therapist?
Many therapists will not see a client for individual therapy who is also engaging in therapy with another professional. Why?


6 ways a therapist could ruin therapy
Therapists could ruin therapy and it's not okay! Here are six subtle ways your therapist could be ruining therapy to look out for...


What will I get from therapy?
I don't really know how to sum it up. It can be life changing, if not saving! It's a customised process, but here's what you can expect...


Can my therapist know I smoke marijuana?
You may be worried about the consequences of talking about marijuana with your therapist. Let's answer a few questions you may have...


Can my therapist cry?
Can my therapist cry? Your therapist should be themselves around you. Yet, there are reasons a therapist shouldn't cry too...


Can I ask my therapist where we are going with therapy?
Can I ask my therapist where we are going with therapy? You're in it together, working out issues and goals as you go. Talk about it all.


Am I a burden to my therapist?
You probably know your therapist cares, it's a choice they've made. But that's not why you asked.


5 things that happen between therapy sessions
What impact can these 60 minutes have? They will have an impact on your week. Those minutes trickle out like water seeping into soil.


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