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Vulnerability and self-awareness are the first steps (not talking)
I dislike hearing that talking is the first step to making a change. It's simplistic and reduces the client, always a huge red flag.


When does a therapist have to break confidentiality UK
Confidentiality may be the reason why you sought out counselling. But, there are exceptions and limitations to confidentiality...


Counselling Transparent Pricing
The hidden costs of counselling. What is the cost of counselling? Transparent pricing.


What happens in therapy (and how do you know if it's working)?
I often have clients ask, "Lily, what is the actual plan here? How do I know if therapy is working?" Here's what to expect ...


What you need to say to your therapist
Disclosure is crucial in therapy. Here’s what you might need to start saying and why…


Helplines for mental health support in the UK
The below links are to helplines only. But, other forms of support are out there too!


Can I ask my therapist about them?
Ask away. Don't be shy with your therapist. Even if they don't answer your question, don't worry. They are glad you asked (trust me!).


Therapy in the media isn't therapy
Therapy in the media couldn't be further from reality. Here's how we see therapists in the media...


Can I see more than one therapist?
Many therapists will not see a client for individual therapy who is also engaging in therapy with another professional. Why?


How to get started in therapy - a short story
A short story to answer 9 questions regarding how to get started in therapy in 2023


What will I get from therapy?
I don't really know how to sum it up. It can be life changing, if not saving! It's a customised process, but here's what you can expect...


Can my therapist know I smoke marijuana?
You may be worried about the consequences of talking about marijuana with your therapist. Let's answer a few questions you may have...


Can my therapist cry?
Can my therapist cry? Your therapist should be themselves around you. Yet, there are reasons a therapist shouldn't cry too...


Can I ask my therapist where we are going with therapy?
Can I ask my therapist where we are going with therapy? You're in it together, working out issues and goals as you go. Talk about it all.


Am I a burden to my therapist?
You probably know your therapist cares, it's a choice they've made. But that's not why you asked.


5 things that happen between therapy sessions
What impact can these 60 minutes have? They will have an impact on your week. Those minutes trickle out like water seeping into soil.


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