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Vulnerability and self-awareness are the first steps (not talking)
I dislike hearing that talking is the first step to making a change. It's simplistic and reduces the client, always a huge red flag.


When does a therapist have to break confidentiality UK
Confidentiality may be the reason why you sought out counselling. But, there are exceptions and limitations to confidentiality...


How to counsel yourself
Find a way to express yourself where you have privacy and security and you can try to understand what happens to yourself in that space.


What is the BACP?
It's possible you've come across the BACP. It is central in the UK because they keep professionals in check and make sure you're respected.


Do therapists treat all clients the same?
This a common question I often get asked as a therapist. I wonder if the reason why clients ask is as equally two fold as the answer.


What to do when you're not in the mood for therapy?
Not being in the mood for therapy is common! Yet, there are things to do to make sure you still get the most out of your session...


Can I ask my therapist about them?
Ask away. Don't be shy with your therapist. Even if they don't answer your question, don't worry. They are glad you asked (trust me!).


Therapy in the media isn't therapy
Therapy in the media couldn't be further from reality. Here's how we see therapists in the media...


Counsellor Reflections: how to help?
Helping others is putting your own oxygen mask on first and working on yourself. When fit and strong, you help others fight their hurdles.


How to get started in therapy - a short story
A short story to answer 9 questions regarding how to get started in therapy in 2023


What will I get from therapy?
I don't really know how to sum it up. It can be life changing, if not saving! It's a customised process, but here's what you can expect...


Can I ask my therapist where we are going with therapy?
Can I ask my therapist where we are going with therapy? You're in it together, working out issues and goals as you go. Talk about it all.


Am I a burden to my therapist?
You probably know your therapist cares, it's a choice they've made. But that's not why you asked.


5 things that happen between therapy sessions
What impact can these 60 minutes have? They will have an impact on your week. Those minutes trickle out like water seeping into soil.


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